If you have ever found yourself overwhelmed and stressed when even THINKING about volunteering, attending a local protest, or knowing where to send your donations, I suggest you tune in. In this episode, I don’t just give you some helpful tips on being a good samaritan - we dive into the anxieties and pressures behind why it feels so daunting to give back. I’ll tie activism/contribution acts to the five Love Languages and sprinkle in a dash of why being realistic AND optimistic might leave you feeling brighter about the future of our world. In a time where it seems like the problems we face are endless, and the call to contribute isn’t always quite as loud as the overwhelm of how to get started, I hope this episode offers you some solace.

Listen: Pick your battles: How to contribute without burning out 

Have you been feeling overwhelmed and stretched thin trying to meet your New Year’s Resolutions? Are you constantly adding new dreams to your goals list? I am here to provide insight and relief to your goal-related burnout. In this episode, I discuss what psychological underpinnings might be driving our endless pursuit of achievement, give tips on getting specific and prioritizing your passions (you’re already doing this more than you think), and how to get honest with yourself about what you value—ending off by looking at your unique makeup for pursuing your dreams (think: astrology, enneagram, human design…) Tune in! I think you’ll walk away feeling a little bit lighter. 

Listen: Do I have too many goals?

Buckle up, y'all, because the queen of cannabis, Shayda Torabi, is joining the pod to teach us all a thing or two about cannabis. Shayda and her sisters run a nationally available dispensary, Restart CBD, where they combine CBD, THC, CBC, CBG, and more to provide the best products for anyone wanting to see how this could be a tool in their wellness toolbox—ever wondered what all the different acronyms mean? Or how to use cannabis with intention and as a supplement to your health routine? We talk through all of these questions and more. Whether you're pro-weed or a little skeptical, you will learn something from today's episode. Plus, we touch on Shayda's experience as a female business owner in a male-dominated field. You'll love it! 

Listen: Getting high with Shayda Torabi 

Have you been wanting to quit or take a step back from social media? But every time you try, you get sucked back in, or you don’t even know how to start. You’re in good company! This seems to be the problem plaguing everyone with cell service these days. In today’s episode, I address the role dopamine has on why it can be SO HARD to disengage from being online, the mental and emotional connection to our phones, and some tips for how the hell to start regaining a sense of control over your usage. Stay tuned to the end for some recommendations for books to read on the topic if that’s your kind of thing (also listed below)! Thanks for listening. 

Listen: Why can’t I quit social media? 

TikTok influencer and actor Kylen Chen-Troester joins to talk about social media and how we can cultivate a healthier relationship to our engagement online. This episode is especially good for creatives and anyone hoping to make a career out of their online presence. We discuss the vulnerability required to create and put yourself out into the world for perception and consumption, how to deal with hate, and explore what’s blocking you! Join Kylen and me on her couch in LA as we navigate our own feelings and relationships to living in a digital age. Fellow netizens unite! 

Listen: Being myself is hard: How to be authentic online with Kylen Chen-Troester

In this week’s episode, we dive into embracing the act of flying solo. If you’ve ever been uncomfy with going out by yourself or spending time alone - this is the episode for you. It is short and sweet but packed with tips for how to begin strengthening your “me time” muscle. I touch on why intentional alone time can be so beneficial and how it can look more fun than you might think! : ) Listen in, ponder on it, and then reach out to me with your insights from time spent alone. See ya next week! 

Listen: Does my therapist hate me?

In this episode, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist Mary Grimberg (aka Vagina Doc on Tik Tok) joins to talk all about the pelvic floor - what it is, how it impacts our mental health, and how to start tuning into our bodies. We discuss the importance of finding good educators online that don’t just scare the sh*t out of you but empower you so that you can advocate for your needs next time you find yourself with a mysterious pain, unbearable periods, or in the ongoing battle with a chronic health issue. And, of course, a healthy dose of feminism as we discuss the impacts of stress on the body and our wellbeing. Mary knows what she is talking y’all! More questions after listening? Hit me or Mary up! 

Listen: Listening to your body with Pelvic Floor PT Mary Grimberg 

In this week’s episode, we dive into embracing the act of flying solo. If you’ve ever been uncomfy with going out by yourself or spending time alone - this is the episode for you. It is short and sweet but packed with tips for how to begin strengthening your “me time” muscle. I touch on why intentional alone time can be so beneficial and how it can look more fun than you might think! : ) Listen in, ponder on it, and then reach out to me with your insights from time spent alone. See ya next week! 

Listen: Alone time sucks, how do I learn to enjoy being by myself? 

Joined by my fellow therapist and friend, Ben Meyers, we unpack the utterly painful & totally exciting world of crushing. If you want to know more about attachment styles and how yours could affect your dating life, this episode is for you. We cover the line between being authentically yourself and “playing the game.” And you’ll walk away from this episode with tips on how to self-soothe and address your dating patterns to come to a place of greater balance, presence, and enjoyment with the process of falling in love. We loved chatting about all this & more, and we hope you love listening! As always, reach out to me after listening with your thoughts and questions! 

Listen: The Crushing Weight of Crushes with Ben Meyers

Welcome to the minidose where I answer listener questions, discuss trends, or share anything else that doesn't fit into a full-sized dose. Today, we are examining TikTok's "girl" trends with a critical eye. I'm sure you've seen some "girl dinners" by now, and maybe you've related to some principles of "girl math," but have you thought about the impacts of these trends? Well, I spent some time pondering it to share some of my loving (and not-so-loving) feelings about these trends. I'll also cover if it's even our concern how fun videos may impact the larger society (and, of course, I mention capitalism). Tune in and then join the conversation! 

Listen: Girl dinner, girl math, are the TikTok girls okay? 

We’re back, baby! In this week’s episode, I explore what the hell happened to those tight-knit friendships from childhood (sleepovers, comfortable silence, last-minute hangs) and how to cultivate closer friendships as an adult. How do I level up a good friend from happy hours to leftovers at my place? Why does it feel kinda scary to let people in? I’ve got you, as the past few years of my life have been in the pursuit of those close, casual, intimate friendships. I’ll share what I’ve learned and throw out some ideas for you to consider in fostering BFF-ships in your life. As always, after listening (or during or before!) message me with your thoughts, questions, or feels. I'd love to hear from you!

Listen: Call your friends! Cultivating closer relationships 

Dive into today's episode for the 411 on what the winter solstice is, ways to celebrate, general vibe & aesthetic tips, and how to connect the solstice to your spiritual and self-growth practices. Whether you're brand new to honoring seasonal changes or have been around the block, this episode will give you what you need to know to connect to this beautiful moment on the wheel of the year & reflect on 2023 before it’s gone…I hope you love it! Smack follow to stay tuned for more bonus content & exciting things coming in season two.

Listen: Your Guide to the Winter Solstice

We are going deep! I share my thoughts and feels about authenticity and vulnerability - reflecting on how it really feels to put your money where your mouth is and embody these values. Throughout making a podcast, I have been confronted with the blocks, limiting beliefs, and challenges that come with showing up authentically and putting myself out into the world in a vulnerable way. I share my personal experience and the tips and tactics I have learned to take care of myself and persist through the expansion process. I invite you to share with me what works for you - I am still growing! Stay tuned to the end for a sweet tarot pull for any of you out there working on showing up open-hearted.

Listen: The Trouble with Authenticity

Maybe you’ve heard of time batching or tried every cute planner you can get a hold of to manage your calendar and to-do lists, but it just ain’t sticking. Or it works alright, but it just feels draining. I introduce to you a bigger-picture approach to planning your life (and when I say life, I mean ALL parts of it) that isn’t so exhausting. Incorporating your values and your definition of the domains of your life (think: health, social life, work, etc.) I walk you through how to curate a “wellness wheel” that prioritizes balance. And on the episode page, you can find an example template of everything I talk about in today’s episode, for the more visual learners.

Listen: Big Picture Approach to Planning

Y’all, today’s episode is fun! I am talking about a topic near and dear to my Taurus heart - REST! Are you on the bed rotting side of TikTok? Have you experienced the need to collapse in bed for at least a full calendar day? Today, we are talking about how to rot well! In the fast-paced, overstimulating time we live in, it can feel like an absolute necessity to disconnect from the world & become a little lump - I feel that. But if we take the time to recharge, yet don’t actually feel rejuvenated afterwards, that could be a sign that the bed rotting isn’t actually helping. I am here to share some simple tips on making the most of your rot days (because we aren’t trying to get rid of them anytime soon!) & how to care for yourself each day to not feel so near collapse by the end of the week. So listen in and get excited to plan your next bedroom retreat!

Listen: How to Recharge Well

Living Your Values to Find Fulfillment

It might sound surprising, but our values provide a powerful map of who we are and what we bring to the world. When was the last time you thought about what values to you (outside of family, religion, school, or other people’s opinions)?? Today, I share my journey with understanding what I value and how they play a role in making the smallest to largest decisions. We each have a unique makeup and flavor, and I’d love to know yours! Listen in to learn how to explore your values aura and act on them for greater alignment and fulfillment. And please message me on IG with yours!

Listen: Living Your Values to Find Fulfillment

In our world today, it feels like we are constantly bombarded with choices. There are a million new restaurants to try, movies to see, or even pink dresses to choose from for your Barbie costume look. If you are even struggling to pick which podcast to listen to right now, this is the episode for you. We talk about what decision fatigue is and why it is so damn draining, as well as tips for decreasing the number of choices you make and making the ones you do more effortless. You may find that your chronic analysis paralysis has some deeper roots than you expected. Join in on the convo & let’s help each other!

Listen: Combating Decision Fatigue

Navigating Friend Break-ups -  In today’s episode, I am speaking from the heart. Friend break-ups are a formative part of my wellness journey, and today, I open up about personal heartbreak. We will talk about why friendships are so meaningful and why it hurts so bad when they start to go South. We explore what to do when you are on the receiving end of a friendship break-up and what to do when you want to change or end a relationship yourself. With practical tools and some heart-centered tips, I hope to leave you more empowered in evaluating your friendships, past and future. Plus, we end with a loving Tarot pull to support anyone hurting. 

Listen: Navigating friend break ups

In today’s episode, we are joined by psychic medium Karen Cooper! Karen got her start in corporate finance, but after growing up intuitive and a series of not-so-subtle calls to mediumship, she made a career switch. In our conversation, we talk about what it takes to make the leap to a new life path and how our purpose extends way beyond our career. Karen has a way of incorporating spirituality, authenticity, and wisdom into every answer and story she shares. She closes with advice to anyone out there searching for their purpose or cultivating the courage it takes to make a leap. You won’t want to miss it!

Listen: Pursuing Your Life Purpose with Karen Cooper

So, you’ve heard a lot about the benefits of therapy and are finally getting around to looking for your own therapist. But you have so many questions, and it’s hard to know where to start; what the hell does CBT or EMDR mean anyways? Should I know? Do I want that? I’m here to answer those questions & many more. We will go over the initial thoughts, feelings, and limiting beliefs that can pop up whenever you start looking for a therapist or asking for help. I’ll talk about what is so great about therapy after all and lay out practical tips on where to look, what to look for, and how to land on the right fit for you. Hopefully, by the end of this episode, you’ll have some actionable steps and feel more hopeful about the process than before you hit play. And as always, I’m here! DM or email your questions; I’d love to help!

Listen: Tips for Starting Therapy